Single Male Policy
We do
allow a limited number of single males in the club, and at each
party.
There is an application, singles seminar and personal interview
required of any single guys who are applying for membership in
the club. Fill out the form below.
The reason
for the selection process is so we can insure that chosen singles
have a better opportunity for success and fit in. This lifestyle
is not for everyone and is often quite different than many single
men believe.
This lifestyle
and this club's philosophy is based on honesty, respect, trust,
freedom, and open communication. Swinging women are the same as
other women, not 'easy lays'. They deserve to be treated with
respect and we want to ensure that the single males who attend
our socials have a healthy attitude toward the ladies.
Why
restrictions?
This is
not a singles club, mostly couples.
The fewer single males, the better opportunity for success.
We go through this process to ensure we share the same philosophy
regarding the lifestyle.
Tips
For Success:
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Be
patient
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Invest time and energy on a regular basis
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Show your personality and sense of humor
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Dance
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Get to know the spouse
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Meet a lot of people; don't focus too much on one person
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Don't focus on someone just because of looks, find people
with whom you share common interests
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Don't ignore someone because of looks
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Be yourself
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Socialize at times other than club night
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Take no for an answer. No amount of "sweet talk"
will change anyone's mind.
Please
complete the following form if you wish to be considered for membership.
We understand that you may feel that we are asking a lot. However,
we are inundated with single males wishing to join and we must
screen applicants in order to ensure that the men who are accepted
have the best possible chance for success and that they share
common goals with our member couples.
Single
men MUST apply by using this form. All fields are required to
be filled in. If you have additional questions, send us an email
by clicking our name below. Please do not call.
Please
note: The next single's seminar will be held August, 2008.
No new singles will be admitted before then. If you submit
the questionnaire, you will be contacted a month before the seminar
date to see if you're still interested.
All
fields are required.
This questionnaire
is for club use only and will only be used to help in our selection
of prospective single members. After evaluating your information,
we will notify you after reviewing this information. If you still
wish to join we will mail an application to you. After receiving
the application and $60 seminar fee, we will make a reservation
for you at the seminar.
The
next single's seminar will be held August, 2008. No new
singles will be admitted before then. If you submit the questionnaire,
you will be contacted a month before the seminar date to see if
you're still interested. If you are invited to join the club,
a one year membership fee of $50.00 will be required at the seminar.